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Why do we have to like people?!

*sigh*...I have yet another crush. Terrible thing...terrible. Just found out today that he's "dating" someone but they're not "official" yet. No offense but...what does she have that I haven't?! *sigh*...why we pick who we pick? why the hell do we like certain ppl? and why is it when you find out that there isn't any current way to their affection, you feel incredibly stupid, retarded of any sense, and worthless? loaded question, but please...humor me.
ugh...stuff like this just confuses me.
*grabs Oreo McFlurry (good stuff, but not as good as the old heath one) and fries and contemplates on how I could be better/what's wrong with me* Ah...comfort food.
If there's any way/reason you could possibly think of to respond to this, here's some pointers to help the process:

1. when you're feeling like shit after a happening with the opposite sex what are your comfort foods/drinks/whatever?

2. Does the edge of rejection and "there's no chance" ever ease off a bit?

and 3. What's it like to feel that the person you like actually returns those feelings back? personally...i've never experienced them...i'm such a loser.

there...this rant is now a legit topic.
rock yourselves' out.

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"Before and After" Ayumi Hamasaki

i'm sure almost everyone on the planet has felt or are feeling the same way as you. I need more than one hand to count how many times that has happened to me. What i usually tell myself is that it prob wasnt suppose to happen and it turned out for the best. Even though the person that you like chose some1 else, it definitely definitely doesnt mean that you are less of a person or worthless. Yes, the pain will ease up, but that requires time. hahhaha as for foods, i usually dont like to eat because what is the use of being down and getting heavier, u know? Don't worry because it may seem like it sucks now, but when you do find that some1 who returns your feelings, it will outconquer your heartaches 100 fold, i guarantee it

kangg fu...you are awesome. Thank you for the reminder/hope

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"Before and After" Ayumi Hamasaki

well its like this....if u like this particular whoever...thats all well and good....but if its momentary then u shouldnt even worry bout it...if this person is really worthwhile and u have real long term-ish(?) feelings toward this person....try hard....may my personal success story be your guide...i wont use names

when i first moved ny i met a girl, lets call her A, we werent very close but i did get a lucky break when she gave me her cell fone number....after about a month or so...i asked her out and was REJECTED...ooo it hurt...a lot.....and howevr....like the cock-tease she was....we kept talkin on the fone day and night...and i asked her out again....a few months later....and again was REJECTED...but i felt this girl was special and i kept on....FINALLY she asked ME out...KAKAKAKA....altogether it took us 9-10 months or so to finally get together...so there u have it....perseverance is....umm a good thing....KAKAKA

Hmm...interesting oppa.
Cause this one girl who i talk to (not really friends...ugh..long story) has liked this guy (i momentarily liked him too) for over a year and has been very persistent in getting his affections. I heard from him just yesterday that they are going out.
Maybe this persistance this pays off...

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"Before and After" Ayumi Hamasaki

i really feel the same way u do. if u wanna see wut happened to me u can check it out here. as for that feeling your getting, im sure almost everyone in the world has felt it, and its how you deal with it that defines you as a person. many people fall back on drugs and alcohol to help them through situations like these, but by posting and telling others how you feel, youre responding in the most "mentally healthy" (lol) and productive way. good luck with ur current situation and i hope things get better for you.