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Dumper or Dumpee?

So, are you usually the person to initiate the break up or is it ur bf/gf who does it?

eh.. i only really been out with one guy officially so yeah.. i broke up with him.

Officially a dumper!!! Hahaha... I love that!

I just get sick of one boy for too long... Hahaha... I prefer more than one at one time!!!

i broke up wid my gf on valentines dai..

ouch

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wha

Why'd you do that? You shoulda used her for Valentine's then break up with her afterwards..

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Originally posted by RaCeR_LaDi_MoOn

Why'd you do that? You shoulda used her for Valentine's then break up with her afterwards..

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Originally posted by AiSH
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seon hO yah..
u dont kno how much it hurtz to be dumped..
or eben if ur da person dat dumpz the other person..
i cant eben describe it..
first ur mad at da person..
but den it hurtz sho much..
you feel lyke yoo wanna cry forever..
and wenever yoo see something that reminds u of dat person..
tears just keep comin` out.....
ahyoo.. buh mebbe iss juss me..
i juss got too attached...
6 monthz.. and one day... dat person juss doesnt love u the same way.
sarang han dah go mahl het neun deh...
deh dahp ee up seu myun uh dduk hah ji? :huh:

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dumpee hahaha usually i want to break it off, but then i don't want to "hurt" their feelings.

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i never dumped anyone in my life..

..maybe im too nice..

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Originally posted by dalgyal
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seon hO yah..
u dont kno how much it hurtz to be dumped..
or eben if ur da person dat dumpz the other person..
i cant eben describe it..
first ur mad at da person..
but den it hurtz sho much..
you feel lyke yoo wanna cry forever..
and wenever yoo see something that reminds u of dat person..
tears just keep comin` out.....
ahyoo.. buh mebbe iss juss me..
i juss got too attached...
6 monthz.. and one day... dat person juss doesnt love u the same way.
sarang han dah go mahl het neun deh...
deh dahp ee up seu myun uh dduk hah ji? :huh:

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Originally posted by aznkid1008

a girl at my church said this "no guy is worth a tear" well then i say no girl is worth a dime ahahahaha j/k but i think she is wrong. i think in relationships u get attached to them and its hard 2 dump them. but heck most of the time i wasnt the one dumpin -_-;;

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I think I would rather be a dumpee.. the circumstance of my current relationship made me think about this a lot before I even started it, but i decided that I would let her break it off, when she wants.... I don't know... I want what's best for her...

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Originally posted by RaCeR_LaDi_MoOn
Officially a dumper!!! Hahaha... I love that!

I just get sick of one boy for too long... Hahaha... I prefer more than one at one time!!!

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Originally posted by psyTeK ver. 2.0


face the facts, if you get sick of one boy for too long, then don't bitch and moan about no one wanting to seek a commitment with you later on in life. u prefer more than one at one time? stop trying to be a player and realize that u can't treat people like a flavor of the week.

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Originally posted by psyTeK ver. 2.0
stop trying to be a player and realize that u can't treat people like a flavor of the week.

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ni pour ni contre; ça m'est égal

"The weight of this sad time we must obey,/ Speak what we feel, not what we ought to say./ The oldest hath borne most; we that are young/ Shall never see so much, nor live so long."
King Lear (V.3.300-304)

it was kind of a mutual thing. we didnt' see each other for the summer and it just wasn't there anymore.. but we were such good friends before... which didn't change at all.... we were still the best of friends afterward... we just didn't have THOSE feelings for each other anymore.

i couldn't handle being either.... which is why i'm glad if our "relationship" had to end.. it ended that way. if i was the dumper i'd feel so mad afterwards... because after all, there were feelings for him. If i was the dumpee.... well duh...haha



haha wut the heck happened up there^.... hahahhahahaa.... victor kekeke....

i thnk i'm both~
if i'm going out with someone that has an ugly personality~ i would want to dump him..

but..if i was going out with some guy i truly liked..i wouldnt wanna hurt him..i'd rather get hurt..den see him hurt ^^

but..i guess da breakin up thing has a lot to do with da situation u guys are under :satisfy: