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Posted by jini on 01-11-2003 12:57 AM:

hum. no idea.

well, my friend said yes to a guy who asked her out but she didn't really like him or know him. she said yes because she knew that he really liked her.
couple months past.. and she still doesn't kno him that well cuz they rarely meet or talk that often.
she's tryin to get to kno him .. yea.

i dunno what kinda advice to give her. she doesn't wanna break up either.

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Posted by AZN Pinoy BOI on 01-11-2003 03:43 AM:

i don't think it's gonna work, relationships shouldn't be like that, you have to know them and thats how you get a good relationship... i know i did that... and a couple mothes later we broke up.... i'm not saying it isn't posible i mean it can happen that one day they can sudddenly like get along perfectly but i think that they probably won't stay together for a long time

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Posted by iTsmeehLita on 01-11-2003 03:56 AM:

so they're still together??

well .. i think they just gotta give the relationship some more time ... after a year or so ... and they feel they still dont know each other too well .. then i dont think they're meant for each other ..

Posted by psyTeK ver. 2.0 on 01-11-2003 06:48 AM:

Re: hum. no idea.

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Originally posted by jini
well, my friend said yes to a guy who asked her out but she didn't really like him or know him. she said yes because she knew that he really liked her.
couple months past.. and she still doesn't kno him that well cuz they rarely meet or talk that often.
she's tryin to get to kno him .. yea.

i dunno what kinda advice to give her. she doesn't wanna break up either.

face the facts... if there is no real genuine interest in this relationship, then there is no point of it continuing. if both of them can't meet because they both don't have cars... i'm assuming they are under 16 and do not know what the hell a relationship is about. tell your friend all the consequences are hers alone since she was the one who's decided that she "doesn't wanna break up". i love self-contradictory people.

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Posted by roentgen on 01-11-2003 07:15 AM:

does she like him?
If she doesn't, there's no point in dragging out a failing relationship. She shouldn't stay in it out of pity or fear of being single. It's more hurtful to the other party(or both) in the end if they realize that the relationship held no water.
Meaning to be kind and consenting to any form of relationship when there is no real interest to keep it together is a very cruel thing to do.
Either that, or if she has genuine interest in knowing this person, they should exchange numbers or something. Relationships require copious amounts of communication. If that doesn't work, they can send letters to each other if they think it'd work faster than if they try to see each other face to face.
I don't know...I'm just throwing ideas out there. I have no idea, really, what the situation is.
Could you please explain it a little more in depth?

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Posted by jini on 01-11-2003 08:25 PM:

ok.. with letters, she said he does but they're repetitious in everyone one. so there's no point in that
and phone? every time he calls they have nothing to talk about and he calls at the weirdest times so she has to hang up quickly.
reason why she doesn't wanna break up: she feels bad for him? i think..

what else...

Posted by roentgen on 01-12-2003 06:47 AM:

If this relationship is founded on pity and continues to be the binding bit of it, she should let him go. It's not fair to keep him chained with the false hope that there is actually something keeping them together. Let him pursue other things.
And, if her problem is with his calling at strange times and she's genuinely interested in the relationship. She needs to call him instead at a time that is convenient for her.
that's all I can think of for now

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Posted by aznkid1008 on 01-12-2003 04:51 PM:

??? thats a load of bs from that guy. how can he like a girl that he doesnt kno? if the girl doesnt kno him how can he kno the girl well? unless he has been followin her around he cant. this isnt a relationship its a waste of time to even get anywhere. i say let it end, the relationship started on bs its not goin 2 get very far.

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Posted by jini on 01-13-2003 11:01 PM:

aigo.. thank yooou..

Posted by roentgen on 01-13-2003 11:08 PM:

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??? thats a load of bs from that guy. how can he like a girl that he doesnt kno?

Anyone can like someone that they don't know. I mean...I like someone that I don't know. but, it is true that rather than liking the actual person..chances are that people(including myself) who fall for someone that they don't know are enamoured with an ideal, a thought on what the person might be like, instead of the real thing.

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Posted by shizn! on 01-14-2003 06:05 PM:

quote:
Originally posted by roentgen
If this relationship is founded on pity and continues to be the binding bit of it, she should let him go. It's not fair to keep him chained with the false hope that there is actually something keeping them together. Let him pursue other things.
And, if her problem is with his calling at strange times and she's genuinely interested in the relationship. She needs to call him instead at a time that is convenient for her.
that's all I can think of for now

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Posted by krnxswat on 01-15-2003 12:00 AM:

Re: hum. no idea.

quote:
Originally posted by jini
well, my friend said yes to a guy who asked her out but she didn't really like him or know him. she said yes because she knew that he really liked her.
couple months past.. and she still doesn't kno him that well cuz they rarely meet or talk that often.
she's tryin to get to kno him .. yea.

i dunno what kinda advice to give her. she doesn't wanna break up either.

i don't think she should of really said yes to that guy when she doesn't really like that person. how would the guy feel when he found that she only said yes because of that reason? a couple months passed, and she still doesn't know him well. wow. and they rarely meet or talk that often. in my opinion, i don't think it's going to workout that well. heh. my advice is that they breakup, i guess be friends and get to know each other better and see what happens.

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Posted by jini on 01-16-2003 11:46 PM:

they broke up.

Posted by roentgen on 01-17-2003 12:07 AM:

are they dealing alright with it?
was it mutual?

just making sure

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Posted by drunken_mnky on 01-21-2003 09:00 AM:

aiygoo

harrowwz everyonez
hmmmz i'm in a reali picke of soem shit lately . just heyz how long did u guys go out wid a chick/dude un till u guys/girls kissed dem ?? itz al right if u don;t answer but just asking cause me cuirious. i'm not a frigid or anything so yeah yeah. waht happens if ur gf goes every were wid out u and never actually invited u to go any werez ??? i'm relali stuck in dis deep ool of crap so yeah answer me back all u love cheifs

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Posted by roentgen on 01-21-2003 12:40 PM:

aigoo... please don't write in phonetics. They're so hard to decipher.

anyway, I gather that you have been going out with someone for long enough that you two have kissed. And this person that you are dating has never invited you out anywhere, therefore, making you feel underappreciated.
I think that it would be most productive for you to tell this person that the lack of attention really bothers you. And if this person just tries to brush you off, be persistent. If that still doesn't work, you may want to re-assess the worth of the relationship to yourself. Don't stick in there just because you've kissed. There has to be more to it.

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