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face the facts, "waiting" for something or someone is a sure way to miss out on other passing opportunities in life. when it comes to love and dating, it's better to be proactive than reactive, since the majority of the time the person you date in your teen years is not the same person you end up marrying later on in life. if current circumstances and situations don't allow you to be with the person you like, then move on. if that person is meant to be, then it will happen at a later time.
for the hopeless romantics who say they'll wait forever if they supposedly "knew" he/she was "the one"... well, have fun waiting, send me a wedding invitation if it ever works out.
let's face the facts, half the people here who say they would wait forever have no choice but to wait. if you know what i mean.

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Originally posted by psyTeK ver. 2.0
face the facts, "waiting" for something or someone is a sure way to miss out on other passing opportunities in life. when it comes to love and dating, it's better to be proactive than reactive, since the majority of the time the person you date in your teen years is not the same person you end up marrying later on in life. if current circumstances and situations don't allow you to be with the person you like, then move on. if that person is meant to be, then it will happen at a later time.
for the hopeless romantics who say they'll wait forever if they supposedly "knew" he/she was "the one"... well, have fun waiting, send me a wedding invitation if it ever works out.
let's face the facts, half the people here who say they would wait forever have no choice but to wait. if you know what i mean.

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psytek. ha ha ha, I couldn't agree with you more. Plus, there really never could be a reason big enough for you to wait for 'forever.' Plus, if you waited for forever,...you would probably only spend 3 days married to her, considering you'd die of old age. And if you're faithful to her, you wouldn't have casual sex with others....so that leaves you with forever without sex, and to end your lonely life, 3 days of sex with a very old person. Sounds romantic ladies and gentlemen.

My answer. 3-6 months. That's waiting for her. If we're talking about long distance relationship for a period of years...sure, as long as I'm able to see her between the beginning and the end of our separation.

Give it a week and jst chill.

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life is short, dont waste it just waiting for another person..either go for it or just forget them and move on..easier said than done but i think thats the best way..been hurt multiple times and it sucks to have to realize that its time to move on, but i owe it to myself; why wait for someone that long? if they were meant to be mine, i wouldnt have to wait all this time..maybe i think this way because i haven't met a guy that i think is worth it..most i waited was about a month and i just couldnt take the waiting anymore so i just ignored him and liked someone else

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bah. what is waiting anyway? if i was separated from a guy that i thought was "the one," i wouldn't date someone else as long as i still believed that the first guy was still "the one." otherwise, it would be dishonest to the new guy because i would know that i couldn't give him my whole heart. even if i knew i could NEVER be with the first guy, i couldn't be with someone new as long as my heart still belonged to the first guy. so in essence, there is a possibility of waiting for a long long long time... maybe even forever.. in which case it would just be that i was destined to be with no one.
but the point is that it's not really actively waiting but rather a byproduct of being true to myself and not settling for less than what is true. in fact, during the whole time of "waiting," i would be aware of the possibility that there could be someone else. cuz honestly, as humans, we can never be sure of "the one." what fate has in store for us, we don't know. people say you have to "move on." but i think that if i was able to "move on" from someone, it would just show me that he was never the one. so if while being separated from the first guy i met someone who i completely knew i would choose over that first guy even if they were both equally available, if this new guy negated the first guy's being "the one" because this new one surely was "the one"... then the honest thing would be to be with this new guy. it would be unfair to the first guy to still be with him if i my heart belonged to this new guy. more often than not, people do move on. but yeah, i dunno about this whole just settling just to have someone thing... i don't like that idea.

from a Christian perspective... i guess what i'm saying is that i don't believe in waiting on people, but rather waiting on God's plan. for non-believers, i guess you could just see it as trusting fate? but part of trusting fate is being true to your heart. the human heart is not absolute as it is, why settle for even less? in the end, what's truly in your heart will coincide with fate. it's like that saying... it goes something like... "if you love it let it go, if it returns then it was always yours; if it doesn't, then it never was." if two people really are the ones for each other, they don't have to tell each other to wait. they will return to each other in the end... or even better, their hearts will have always belonged to each other even while being separated. otherwise, they weren't supposed to be in the first place.

wdf???
u can;t just sit on ur ass and excpet the iright person to come but if ur waiting for the girl/dude then i'll probn wait 6 months for the gil then if she dusn;t still coem then i would not take it that seriously i'd probbly go find other girls to start a relationship wid.

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Originally posted by AZN Pinoy BOI
agreed

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im actualie about 2 be in this situation soon wit muh bf... aigoo... N yia... honestly, i can wait a lifetime for my special sum1... hopefullie it wont be that long till he comes back tho...

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